"I didn't think you'd want to go anyway"
Easter morning. Anyone who has taken part in preparations for any family gathering knows how much planning goes into it. If you're making food, you know what you're making at what time so it can all be ready on time. I came down to find the kitchen being used to make brownies. I told her I needed to use the oven and her response was, "well you were sleeping." We've gone over this a number of times recently as she keeps coming down and using the kitchen for her own meals and desserts right at dinner time, without checking with me if I need to use the kitchen to make dinner for my family. The last time she asked me if she could use the kitchen for an hour, she spent three and a half hours in it and got offended when I pointed this out. I got a simple "sorry" but only after an "oh well" and a repeat that I was sleeping. It took me rebuking that and saying that it matters, for her to even fake caring. I never asked her what the brownies were for......